accountable to our actions

Last Friday (11/9/07) we had a very pleasant surprise. One of the youth brought in their Nintendo Wii and it's just too much fun not to play! That took up quite a bit of our time. In between playing sessions though, we followed up on actions that we discussed the previous Friday and talked a bit about accountability.

You can refer to our earlier blog called "our actions" to read about what we did the previous week, but in short, they obviously mean much. We referred to a short passage in James and also took the time to think of specific actions to serve people in our home, church, school, and neighborhood.

We revisited those actions. I challenged the youth to pick one action in one of those categories that they are willing to do this week. And I encouraged them being accountable to each other. I will be calling them during the week, but my hope is that they will encourage each other when they see each other. And I said they can challenge and encourage me to make sure I follow through.

Accountability is important in the community of believers. We are not meant to go through this journey alone. In fact, we will be talking about community this upcoming Sunday (11/18). It says in Proverbs, amongst other places, how much more a group of believers can do together as opposed to someone alone.

So let's grow together. Let's encourage one another. Let's build this community at church and youth group.

our actions

This past Friday (11/2/07) we had a discussion about the importance of our actions using a clip from the film, Batman Begins. The clip features a conversation between Bruce Wayne (played by Christian Bale) and his childhood friend, Rachel Dawes (played by Katie Holmes). Afterwards, we had a short discussion and an activity on thinking of actions that would help those around us. You can find the full study at The Source for Youth Ministry website here.

Bruce is leaving a hotel with a couple of lady friends and being arrogant. They were being disrespectful and Bruce's response to one of the employees was writing a check to buy the hotel. While exiting, he runs into Rachel, clearly embarrassed by how he looks (his suit is wet from jumping into the hotel decoration pool with his friends). The main line at the end of this movie clip is when Rachel says to Bruce, "It's not who you are underneath... it's what you do that defines you."

Some questions based on this scene:
1) Have you ever seen anyone doing something they shouldn't have, and they get busted?
2) Have you gotten busted for doing something you shouldn't have?
3) Why do we try and explain when we get busted?
4) How powerful are our actions?

The main idea with question 3 is that we try and explain that this is not how we are usually like. We are better then that. Everyone agreed that our actions are powerful and can speak louder than words. We then looked at James 2:14-17, which speaks about this topic. Another important point is that as Christians, we are defined by the love of God, not our actions. Our actions are still huge, but they are an outpouring of the identity we receive from God, as it says in the bible passage from James.

We closed by doing an activity in silence. What are ways we can make the people around us better? In timed intervals, each youth sat and wrote down ways that they can use actions to build the community and improve the lives of people at their home, school, church, and neighborhood.

Actions speak louder than words. It is my prayer that we all think and act on ways to improve the community around us and bless others.

study of James 3-5

This was our study on Sunday, May 6, 2007:

A couple weeks ago, we went through the first 2 chapters of James. Last Sunday (5/6/07) we completed our study. James has a lot of practical advice for living the Christian life.

3:3-12 The tongue is compared to many things, including a rudder on a large ship and a spark that starts a fire. It can cause a huge change in direction or cause a lot of damage. We best watch the things we say and don't say!
One example I used was me driving in traffic. I'll be the first to admit that I get upset when traffic is heavy. It's crazy how I will be singing worship to God along with CDs one minute, then curse other drivers that annoy me the next! I certainly need to watch my tongue as well! As it says in this passage, a spring cannot produce both fresh water and salt water.

"2You want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. 3When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures." James 4:2-3
When we ask for things from God, sometimes we ask for the wrong things or ask for the wrong motives. We need to ask yourselves: Am I trying to satisfy my own desires or fulfill God's plan. It was unanimous that we should study "listening to God" in the future.

"7Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. 10Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up." James 4:7-10
5 ways to be near to God: 1) submit to God, 2) resist the devil, 3) lead a pure life, 4) grieve for your sins, and 5) humble yourselves. There were questions regarding the 4th way. We need to grieve over the sins that we do because while many of them are enticing and may feel good at the time, they cause God pain. We need to grieve over those sins and not fall to them anymore!

The rest is very practical and straightforward. James writes about judging, doing good today and not boasting about tomorrow, warning the rich who oppress the poor, persevering during suffering, and prayer. Like I said, James has a lot of practical advice for Christian living. It's short- and should be read frequently. My prayer is for all of us to follow these spiritual pearls.